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Tuesday, May 08, 2007

"I just did something involuntary. And messy."

(Ice Age 2, by the way)

I've mentioned before that I'm afraid of confrontation. Any confrontation.

I don't know why. But I'm really afraid of talking to people in person about how I feel. I can blog about it. I can chat online about it. On rare occasions I can even talk about it over the phone. But in person? I'm terrified.

I tried to figure out why I'm conditioned to be afraid of this, and how I got this way, but I kept drawing blanks. I got nothing.

There's been something I've wanted to talk to a friend about. But I've been incredibly scared. Finally I made a commitment today--I told him there was something I wanted to talk to him about, and that I wanted to do it in person. I'm still shocked I even got that far. Presently, I'm very nervous. There is no reason to be nervous about talking this person. And yet, I'm all quivery.

I just keep telling myself that the more I do it, the better it will get. I really hope I'm right.

In the mean time, I will study to distract myself.

4 Comments:

Blogger drex said...

It does get easier. I'm to the point now that I prefer confrontation in person (although email is often very tempting) because I'm able to more accurately portray my emotions and the real intent of what I want to say. Practice really does ease things up, though.

And I bet everything will go fine this time around, too.

12:16 AM  
Blogger Stephen said...

My debate career has jaded me to in-person confrontation issues. Even so, I'm pretty sure what you're experiencing isn't that dissimilar to the pre-match jitters I get, or I should say used to get, every single time. I used to flirt/other stuff (all rated PG, mind you) with members of my fan club to take my mind off it.

You just need to get yourself a fan club!

12:16 AM  
Blogger The Jet said...

What's this all about? I'm curious. And I haven't talked to you for like, four days. SIGH.

3:53 PM  
Blogger Brady said...

You fixed the link to your other blog! Yay! That makes my life sooo much easier. Typing it into the address bar is way too time consuming...

7:59 PM  

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